Who should I tell about my diagnosis?
Unless you're going to have sex with someone or share needles, it's completely up to you to decide if you want to tell others about your HIV status. The choice should always be yours and based on what is best for you, as long as your actions are not endangering others.
Deciding on when to disclose your condition to others (e.g., friends, parents/family members, partner, managers, schoolmates, or co-workers) can be very stressful and can cause feelings of anxiety and even regret. “Disclosure” means sharing your personal information or “revealing”(in this case) your positive status.
What are different forms of HIV stigma?
Some reasons why people remain silent about their status are:
- Cultural/societal taboos or intimidation
- Stigma or discrimination
- Bigotry (judgment connected to race or ethnic background and how you were infected)
- Fear of being dismissed or mistreated by a medical practitioner
If you have questions about disclosure, read the Privacy and Disclosure for Youth Living with HIV or Hep C guide and the HIV Disclosure Guide for Youth to find out when and in what situations you need to disclose.
Does my sexual partner need to know about my HIV-positive status?
In Canada, you are required by law to disclose your HIV-positive status to a sexual partner before you have sex with them if there is a realistic possibility of HIV transmission. If you don’t share this information and there is a realistic possibility that you can infect a partner, you could be criminally charged.
If you’re unsure of what “a realistic possibility of HIV transmission” means, watch this video:
Where can I find legal information about HIV/AIDS?
For legal questions on:
- Access to health care
- Immigration law
- Social assistance and employment-related questions
You can contact The HIV & AIDS Legal Clinic Ontario (HALCO). HALCO offers free legal information.
What resources can help me take care of myself?
Ask your doctor or Community Health Centre (CHC) practitioner about referrals to free therapy services if you’re feeling depressed or overwhelmed. A lot of community health organizations will take “self-referrals” as well - this means you can request to see a counsellor or therapist without a doctor’s request if you’d like on-going support.
If you don't have a referral from a settlement agency, a mental health agency or hospital, you can visit our "Where can I get mental health help?" page for a list of counselling services across Ontario.